I feel strange asking for help picking out and spending $1000 + on tube head without having any clue as to what I need.  But here it goes:

I play dirty, junked-out rock n roll (johnny thunders, sex pistols, new york dolls etc...)  And I don't use a whole lot of gain, instead I just get whatever I am using to the point of breaking up, and then EQ it to sound mean and dirty.  I can't stand a smiley face EQ sound and as my name suggests, mids are my happy spot.

I am currently playing out of an old ampeg vt40 that i dearly love.  The rocker switches on it are amazing and it gives me a lot of options to cut through and get a very colored, unique tone, but it takes strange old tubes, and smells kinda funny when i run it, so the wife is a little worried and truth be told, i like amps, and i like trying something new.

I would like something with a master volume running at 45 or 50w.  I have a good avitar 2x12 cab with vintage 30's.

Also, I have demos on soundcloud of my songs were doing at the moment, which this amp would be used for and I'll post them here:  https://soundcloud.com/chord-caveman/the-golden-age-of-planned-2

Thanks Joe.  That JTM45 is 30W. correct?  That would be perfect to crank since there's no MV.  The Ampeg's 60w. and theres no way i can crank it in my band.  i dont know what it is, but the thing is just as loud as any 100w. head i've heard.